I was having a conversation today…and yesterday…and Sunday about how it has been so very, very hard to keep my damn mouth shut about the political game. I’ve slipped a few times – more this week than in all previous elections combined – but I am doing my absolute best to not tell people to vote in any way or imply that any candidate is not a Christian candidate.
I’ve wanted to. My God, I’ve wanted to. But I have been keeping my mouth shut. Mostly.
I know I’m not alone, but I can’t help but notice that I have quite a few pastor friends who are quite vocal this election, and I get it. I really do, I really, really do. But I find myself at a crossroads.
I am a pastor(ish), and even when I am not in my pulpit, I may as well be because people are going to hear it as the pastor giving his pastoral advice. I may not be presenting the Word of God in every moment (ESPECIALLY WHILE WATCHING DEBATES) but I am a pastor in every moment, and the words of my mouth are the words of a pastor no matter if I am commenting on the qualities of a specific sandwich at Chick-fil-A* or talking about the qualities of a specific candidate. In every moment, my voice is the voice of a pastor.
Now if I say that a chicken sandwich at Chick-fil-A* was tasty but the breading was a bit soggy, I have expert status because I eat a lot but not because I’m a pastor. I’m just a sad, sad man at that point. But if I say that one candidate is better than another, my being a pastor gives a level of expertise as a theologian and professional minister. If I say a particular candidate is not a Christian and demonize them, then I have declared – even unintentionally – that the correct Christian choice is to vote against them. If I say that the country is doomed if a particular candidate is elected, I say that using the authority I have as a pastor.
Maybe that’s how you think pastors should work, and I won’t be able to convince anyone otherwise, but consider the situation I find myself specifically and tell me how I am supposed to be political and not do a disservice to the Christians I serve, because all of them are baptized, confessing, and worshiping Christians just like me, flaws and all.
I have a staunch Trump supporter, a few that will vote Republican, a strong Clinton supporter or two, a few that will vote for Hillary, and a pile that seriously think the only answer – the absolute only answer – is for neither to be on the ballot and so they feel so helpless and hopeless.
Now let’s say that I demonize Trump and support Hillary. The Hillary supports just feel supported, the Trump supporters no longer feel like they are welcome Christians, and those frustrated in the middle point to things that she has said that clearly go against my preaching and ask how I can support her. Most people (or at least half) were just told – albeit possibly unintentionally – that voting for the candidate of their choosing is a sin and that they should feel ashamed.
Now reverse it. Different people, same result. I literally told half or more of the people in my congregation that they are sinful for disagreeing with me.
Maybe you don’t see it as forcefully as I do. Maybe you see yourself as speaking in a voice that isn’t your pastor voice. Maybe you believe that absolutely no real Christian could support a particular candidate – and that your view is absolutely correct.
But I do. And before I get an onslaught of things that are wrong with both candidates, I’m watching the same news, reading the same blogs, and having the same thoughts as everyone else. I can see – clearly – what is going on. I don’t need you to tell me why you hate/love a particular candidate. I am not blind or dumb.
I just don’t think it’s responsible for us to be so publicly demonizing and deifying candidates and tell those who we serve who disagree with us – that those that serve right along with us – that we hold the only possible Christian option and dissent is unacceptable.
Now jokes about voting for Mr. Potato Head and Aaron Rodgers (whom I hate with the fire of a billion suns) and expressing your frustration with how the election is shaking out is an entirely different matter. That’s called being human, and my success as a pastor is about 75% due to my being willing to be a human. But when you discussion of political situations turns to “Absolutely not her/him”, you tell those who disagree with you that they cannot have their position and still be Christians.
I’ll admit I hate elections, and I want my Twitter feed to go back to beer, jokes, bourbon, jokes, and occasionally a profound statement, but the rhetoric is out of hand, even if I agree with 99% of it. We’re pastors, we have a different standard and a different calling and we should respect that even when it pains us. We serve our congregations (or different ministries), not the political process of our country. Think about the people you serve and if what you are saying will make them less served by you.
Rant over. Contemplating turning the heater on in my office.
*I hadn’t had Chick-fil-A in years and then one opened in Dubuque and I was on the road a lot and found myself having to choose take-out and now I’ve had enough Chick-fil-A for a year…